When he acts flaky let him know how terrible it makes you feel, this may make him think twice about the way he is treating you. He would call to make sure I get home safe after work and school. It hurt my feelings as an Aries woman but we talked and decided to move on from it. They might not be the same mistakes but they are mistakes nonetheless. Sorry for my rambling. I noticed he would talk about his ex often and still was in contact and I called him out and said if you want to be with your ex then go. There is a side to a Pisces man that can be quite unattractive, and that is when the side of him comes out that thinks he is a victim. When he came back he informed me of all he had done etc. If he cares, he will answer you and tell you if he still wants to keep going with it or if he wants out. Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (dont worry, its anonymous). You have tried everything, but it seems like the more you try the faster he tries to pull away. I don't literally mean by mistake, anyway. Im sorry. Make sure hes not just out to play you and hurt you. However, he needs to learn that his sensitivity and emotions are his own responsibility and he needs to figure out how to cope with these feelings productively. Too flakey and wishy-washy for most women. As a Virgo, you should relate to that because most Virgos are also extremely private. He ghosted me for a couple days came back and apologized saying he needed space because it irritated him how Id freak out, but I reminded him I was high. Im a Scorpio and I met him at 20 and he was so crazy about me emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. I feel like we connected very well on all possible levels. If your Pisces guy tends to leave out details when youve asked him what hes been up to; he is either feeling he doesnt have to answer to you or he knows hes being dishonest. It seems unfair to me. This is often how a Pisces man will test you. And I said, what abt? And he said, I think Im staying in marching band. I was so happy and I told him how glad I was to hear that. It's alright to let him have some free time and space. Please help because I like him. I am a male August Virgo, Dating a Male March Pisces. Hes a lover and a dreamer. He knows all the right things to say to get into your life or into your pants. Its fantastic he sends money back home and that he does keep in touch. So I got there and we talked so I told him I know Im not wrong and that he is someone else and he looked me in the eyes saying no theres not but he moved his hand. 5. Men that feel guilty will tell you things like "you didn't deserve that." They might say that they feel bad. Sorry to mention that he never texted me fist hes always busy ok I can understand Bcz hes doing two jobs but yah if I dont text then he will send me a text hi thats all sorry for my bad English I hope u understand. He also has self-esteem issues and it reflected on your relationship. I think what hes told you is a lame excuse when it comes to you looking younger. This is just the beginning of your amazing relationship together. He seems to always think that the grass is always greener on the other side, and he likes to keep his options open. Believe me when I say the sex was and still is absolutely amazing!!!! Fast forwarding, we have made plans on getting things going with our lives and into finally being able to see each other. So I send h a text that if he needs more time it is his Im not going anywhere and I also send him this very nice song. Talk to him! He asked to hangout on Sunday but then acted like the conversation never happened on Sunday. Making him jealous can trigger this reaction. He was like yes, just need some fresh air. Bring Him Back Down to Reality. He introduced me to his family and friends. Its been confusing cause I feel like our relationship didnt really start until end of 2020. Take a look at my next section to find out more. Ive read your articles but I still cant figure this out. Long story short the first week of may he tells me hes been going to help a friend move and thats going through things. So in the week I texted him about it so he said he hasnt slept with someone yet. I went to see my friend and we hung out playing video games, but what he isnt saying is: I went to hang out with my female friend and we started with video games but ended up having sex.. Then again he asked me to buy him a $500 i-tunes gift card. They know how to play with peoples heartstrings and this gives your Pisces man a lot of power because he knows how to control people based on their emotions. Read up more on Pisces guys in my book Pisces Man Secrets. Anyway I stayed calm and 9 hrs later I texted again and I said alternatively we can just use condoms until I can get birth control and still no response. The flaky behavior is because he isnt invested or interested sweetheart. Maybe he is actually busy and not doing what you think he is doing. My ex is a Pisces. AS far as right now, he sounds a bit like a stalker. He does know I recently lost my job due to this pandemic and his always been so understanding and supportive about it even used to give me money for no reason and without asking either but that has stopped and I really dont mind Ive never asked for it anyway. But he still lets me know things at the last minute. I could tell he was jealous because me and him would never play like that he didnt get to know my real personality. Then again, he could be testing you to see how you respond. Help! My experience with some Pisces men is that they have an idealized version of their past ex, and they keep playing that story in their heads on repeat, when in reality, that ex, or their past experience with her, wasnt as great as they have made it up in their mind. We simply just loooved talking to each other and being in each others company. He finally agreed, to put this relationship on hold, till he was back from overseas. I told him that I like him, enjoy our time together, feel very comfortable with him and would like to get to know him even better in a romantic way obviously. Our relationship last year, when everything was good, was amazing. Then I begin to feel bad, we can go weeks without speaking even though I reach out all of the time to resolve issues. Its this type of thing that can cause Pisces man to play mind games. Ask him if you let him back in if he will be with you only. Im hooked.. Alright so there was strong chemistry but if he decided there wasnt anything else there except the sexual intensity or hes no ready to be in a relationship, he would decide to ghost. Please help me, Anna Kovatch. Both parties have to be willing to do the work. How To Make a Ghoster Regret 1. He will also start reacting if you're spending too much time together. We went out and hit it off in an eventually very long date. When I told him that I have feelings for him, he said he dont know what he wants and he just trying to develop himself. He would flake and we stopped talking then he popped back up and apologized. Of course you should also always trust your own feel on it too. Hi I am a Scorpio, with a Pisces mask, Scorpio moon, and joined a social media app (not fb) just recently. Tell him you feel unwanted or desired. Just because hes super attracted to you and wants to have sex with you doesnt mean he wants more than that. So I dont know what answers I want at this moment but whatever your conclusion is Ill appreciate it. 3 days later I figured everything out after taking a step back from him realizing that he is also seeing someone else. He almost did but I didnt let that happen so I started to distance myself away from him. I get being busy at work but I know damn well you can throw a text. Treat others (even your ghosting ex) with kindness if you want to be treated kindly. Be careful sweetheart. I tried to understand but he kept doing it for 2 months. I know this is long and full of fluff but I had to tell someone. To have your Pisces man see you as his Queen once again! This is all just a test to see how far he can push things with you, and he gets a rise out of how you respond. Oh and Im an aquarius lady. If you need more Pisces help, check out my book. Tell me how he did it, Id love to know! Hes talking to you and making promises he doesnt intend to keep is one of the signs a Pisces man is playing you. Because of his sun sign. He replied 10 minutes later with its march 3, dont forget. The inner journey, the spiritual quest, and the emotional realm are what the Pisces man's general focus. I decided not to sleep with him to see his real intentions with me. However with some women, theyre a dream come true as a male partner. He sees no value in reaching out and trying to talk anything through. What should I do. Then I had a death in my family so I postponed. Otherwise just enjoy him. I explained I didnt want to disturb him. Even when he is traveling he will call and text me all the time but lol where is my invite??. Recently hes feeling not himself and feeling that something is off and suddenly thinks we should be friends and that he needed space and will reach out when ready. 1. And the more you try to get him to stick to the plan, the faster he tries to run away. We even had our first night without sex which was so weird but i didnt mind he was still very affectionate and loving also we didnt because I had come of birth control coz of hormonal issues so I think thats also a reason. Sounds like your Pisces man was very much damaged from a past relationship where he was cheated on or betrayed. Tell him he needs to let you know otherwise you will go work on yourself as well. Don't get mad. I later told him he was mine in a text. Im a May Taurus and the person that was trying to play me was a March Pisces. If hes not seeing anyone else and treating you as he does then hang onto it. I couldnt contact him on the weekends too and being busy was always be his reason. Although I thought that was kind quick I said yes! He also tells me he loves me a lot. So hes making excuses and pushing it back to you. Things went really up and down but it was because I was high and Im terrified of talking about my feelings, and the fact hes not a good texter made me anxious. Your Taurean pride may lose him though. Im an Aquarius woman that fell deeply in love with a Pisces man. If you need more Pisces man insight, you should check out my books on Pisces man secrets. Sadly this lasted only for 1 year. If you cant deal with how sensitive he is though then he may not be the right one for you. Hi This isnt even all of the details but a summary..what do you think ? Find out by asking him what his deal is. He doubts that I have real love for him. Im so confused because hes so hot and cold without even trying to be. Then, they will tell you an explanation for their actions. Did something happen that made you change your mind?. So we spoke about so much and by the sound of things it seems as though he seems to see me in his future but this man has never taken me out on a date weve just always hung out at one of his houses lol. Pisces men are quite popular under the ladies. He wont commit but has talked to me about marriage and have another baby. Ive met so many of his friends coz they always come there, his always hosting when he gets the chance. Give him time but tell him that you two really need to talk face to face (in person or video chat) so that you can hash it out. Panic can make you do and say the wrong things. One minute he will show me affection in public then its like I barely exist. We spend a weekend together were things got heated when we made out, but nothing happened so I got the feeling he doesnt have alot of experience. I wasnt embarrassed, just caught off guard. So told him Im ok with it I understand certain things are important so I dont mind waiting to see him. Tell him you love spending time with him. ya da, ya da. This makes him incredibly insecure enough to play the jealousy card on you. He also hates his mother working at the bakery they own. He sounds confused and maybe a little immature. We also slept together but this didnt work out very well, which I did not consider a big issue as it was the first time (nervousness) and we also had a lot of wine. Hopefully hell explain himself better. So your ghoster might have acted selfishly but then realized their mistake and are feeling guilty for hurting you. Also whats with the empty promises.. Maybe his not planning to take me out anywhere not even a date. And before I left he told me he wil see me the next weekend. He got drowned by his own thoughts. I would just start doing your own thing and not acting like this is something. Giving him space will be your best option, followed by reaching out to him to see if he is Okay. He was upset, because he said I did not trust him. This man in the armed forces, overseas. We woke up next morning, with him seeming aloof and no sign of tenderness. If he is being flaky with you then youve got to say something to him about it. He gets quiet but if I call him out on something he will I guess be honest. Its been 3 days. We then moved on to exchanging numbers and would message each other almost everyday. Yes Pisces men and women are different mainly due to hormonal differences. If I dont try to talk to him back, he usually texts or calls by night. That will make him take a pause and think. Can you please help me with some advice. One day I told him. When I confronted abt this he said he thinks he has intimacy issues and doesnt know why he cant spend time alone with me. But what bothered me is he seemed very distant the next day and my insecurities started like what did I do wrong were did I fail ect. Tell him you love him and miss him. This is my first time dating a pisces so is it because we are moving too fast that he just wants to be friends and when he says he will reach out, will he really or is he just softening the blow? He left we text more when he got home. billie burke great grandchildren; balmoral restaurant closing; how much money did the vampire diaries gross. Shortly after, kohen texted back saying man making me feel bad with the crying emoji. Blah, sounds like you haven an alcoholic on your hands. PISCES. Me and Evan were talking about pianos when suddenly kohen told his brother (loud enough for me to hear, but acted like it was just between him and his brother) that he should start playing guitar again. He doesnt want the titled because it scares him so he keeps it as is but hey if hes playing the role then just keep going with it. i blocked him for two weeks because he was being such an ass but then missed him so i came back. All his other actions need to line up with what he says otherwise you have no reason to believe him. Pisces Men Are Very Convincing With Their Mind Games, How To Tell If There's A Future With Your Pisces Man, 5 Clear Signs A Pisces Man Is Playing You. Am I fool to keep chasing and wanting to be with him, oh and FYI there is a 15 year difference between us, but that does not seem to matter to either of us. I told him I was sorry and that I dont want him to hate me but all he said was I dont hate anyone. Then at every practice, the trumpets would talk about how I liked him. No wonder so many women want to be with them because they make them feel so deeply loved and seen! Be very careful. The good thing about a Pisces man is that when he commits, he really commits. Im afraid the only way to know for sure why hes acting strange is to ask him about it. He always talks about us traveling and doing this and that but nothing so far, he still says it but nothing. We texted over the weekend randomly. Hes so detached or scared to show he has feelings so he wont get hurt. Maybe he is afraid to commit but until he figures himself out, hes not going to take a leap into a relationship. Till now we are in touch but I feel like he is afraid of commiting and not say anything. So last week he finally texted me and we made plans to see on another. Other part says text him on more time and say something. He is 30 years old Im 27. Its great to hear from you. There is a small chance that he may be really surprised that you arent chasing him, that he may come circling back to you, but dont hold your breath in for this. 5. When youre not trying to give him so much attention, he may start reaching out to you. Perhaps he will figure things out in his head and then better communicate with you. Hes so good at telling lies or bending the truth that hes become very comfortable with himself. We share the same values and interests but sometimes disagree with one anothers practices) When hes done, hes done and you wont hear from him again. The second seven signs are the indicators that he's gone for good. If a relationship between the two of you can happen it will require much more lessons in communication. With my Scorp, intuition I KNOW what love and making love would be with this man! He will blame everyone else for his problems and make excuses about why it is never his fault. It makes sense when you listen to any of his lyrics. Watch for everything Ive mentioned here and you should be able to tell rather quickly whether your Pisces man is actually into you and trying to commit or if hes talking himself up for something he wont ever deliver. Can I please get advise thank you, because I dont know what to do. I was shocked to receive, a message from this man out of nowhere. Dont ever make him feel as if youre interrogating him. I think Id tell him that if he needs to figure out himself then you will gladly give him some time and space but if hed like to develop the bond more, youll be there. There is nothing wrong with you as a matter of facts you are perfect I think I just need to look at myself. Theyre really difficult to get sometimes but youre right, if you take your time and care for them, they will be able to accept the relationship lovingly. You have a right to do this when youre left in the air with it. The Pisces Man. As a Capricorn, you should be able to provide stability and a steady ground from with to work on. Im so confused he says all these things but acts like hes scared? Thoughts? We were to go get a drink but opted just to sit in his car and talk more. 4 months into dating he said he loved me but I couldnt say it back. He is a athlete and travels allot and barely has time but he does try to make time for me and show me that he misses me or wants to see me, but then he can be flakey because hes so busy and barely has time that he tries to over extend himself which drives me crazy. He went about his day and called a time or two and texted. Many couples are best friends. He still calls me checks on me still possessive. So in the week I was like no Im not doing this anymore so I texted him and saying it, but he didnt even respond. Moved in with him at 14 because of my situation and we were together till I was 16. Give him a chance but if he pulls back again, end it for good. He told me he would pay me back, I was in such an emotional uphevel, I did not do it and backed out. Let him know that you wont stand for this nonsense. He needs to find middle ground with you. Make sure you read all the way until the end. How do I know the things he said in that message is a lie so he can just keep me on a string not to move on? Shutterstock. So I voice message him saying I just please want an explanation, because I feel like we had a connection and before I let him go just please give me an explanation and if he wants me to ill let him go and its over. I am not sure if he was upset that I asked for validation again or because I didnt believe him. It wasnt until around 9 or 10 i texted and he asked me to stop by. It depends on him and what his belief system is. Sagittarius (November 23rd to December 21st) You were a sarcastic ass. Thank you for chiming in Ivania! But its only until he fully trusts you that he may start to change his ways. It must be because they are so sweet, romantic, and sensitive. Ill text your in the morning babe morning came and I didnt get my usual morning text. Make your Pisces man forget every other woman and go absolutely crazy for you. and there were many things, he said perfect. Its hard to know which is which without a bit of time and research. You may be dating a Pisces man for a while now, but things just dont feel the same as once did. We started off just messaging each other through in game private chat and really got to know each other. Ok so here is what you do. Distance is very hard and its even harder when you have no idea what is going on with your partner. What do you think Anna? Pisces man can be a serious space cadet, the non-mindful ones at least. You may have unresolved karma between you. I texted him 2 hours prior to confirm bc he is flaky. If you need more information, you should check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets. We have been speaking to each other everyday and as childish as it may seem we sleep on video together every night. Was he playing games just for sex? Are Pisces men players? I have asked him what his intentions are with me not so long ago and he said the long road were we settle down buy a house get married and have a family. Am I doing something wrong. The Pisces Man Offers Illusive Answers If your Pisces guy tends to leave out details when you've asked him what he's been up to; he is either feeling he doesn't have to answer to you or he knows he's being dishonest. Represented by a pair of fish, Pisces is the final sign in the Zodiac. Try bringing in a third party. We finally met for one day and spent 18 hours together at a hotel We agreed it was an epic night not because of the sex but because we just loved being together and just had a great time. He also need to prove his loyalty to you so you dont have to mistrust him. I was devastated so I apologized and said everything I could to patch it up. Ouch yes lies are no good for anyone. Every person is different and that remains true for Pisces as well. 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